“Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.” – Philippians 2:4
The Apostle Paul is reminding the church in Philippi and us today that the Christian life is not about selfish living, but about selfless serving. We are called to help others, to serve the needs of people around us, and to put their needs before our own.
But notice carefully: Paul doesn’t tell us to neglect ourselves. He says, “not only for your own interests.” If your life, health, or walk with God is in ruins, how can you serve others effectively? It is wise to care for yourself—but stopping there is selfish. The call of Christ is to go further.
And yet, many believers today fall into the trap of tearing each other down through gossip, backbiting, judgment, and criticism rather than building one another up. Instead of serving, we devour. Instead of encouraging, we discourage. Paul calls us to something better:
- Not just your own financial affairs, but also those of others.
- Not just your own property, but also the needs of your neighbor.
- Not just your own family, health, or reputation, but also the wellbeing of those around you.
- Not just your own education, success, or happiness, but also the growth and joy of others.
We need to walk in humility and living with the conviction that we owe service to others, not the other way around like what apostle Paul says, “I am a debtor both to Greeks and to barbarians, both to wise and to unwise. (Romans 1:14 NKJV).
And why should we live this way? Because Christ Himself set the example. He loved us, died for us, forgave us, and accepted us when He owed us nothing. He counted our lives as valuable, even when we weren’t worthy. He said:“For who is greater, he who sits at the table, or he who serves? Is it not he who sits at the table? Yet I am among you as the One who serves.” (Luke 22:27, NKJV).
Now I challenge those who deceive themselves by saying, “I don’t need the church. I can follow Jesus on my own.” But how can you obey Philippians 2:4 in isolation? How can you look out for the interests of others if you separate yourself from the body of Christ? How can you admonish, encourage, or edify anyone if you refuse fellowship?
Who is really Lord of your life? The LORD Jesus Christ, or your own opinions? Which has more authority, what you think, or what God’s Word says?
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