John 16:21

“A woman, when she is in labor, has sorrow because her hour has come; but as soon as she has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world.” — John 16:21 

Jesus used this analogy to describe what His disciples would feel. A deep sorrow at His death, but overwhelming joy at His resurrection.

As a woman who has given birth, I understand exactly what He meant.

Carrying a child for nine months is no easy task.

Labor is even more intense—painful, exhausting, and incredibly hard.

But when that baby finally comes out, and you hold them in your arms…

The pain, the anguish, the hardship. All of it is swept away in an instant. Replaced with overwhelming joy. A joy so deep, no words can fully describe it. Greater than anything this world could ever offer.

In that moment, it’s a deeply fulfilling experience—as if you’ve accomplished something far greater than yourself, simply by bringing life into the world.

That’s what Jesus was showing us.

His death should move us— should bring sorrow and anguish to our hearts, Knowing that He died for our sins. That He loved us so much, He was willing to suffer, be crucified, and die. Just to brings us new life.

Just like a woman who carries a child, risking her life and enduring pain to bring life into the world.

But when the Lord rose from the dead, All the sorrow, pain, and hardship were swept away—Replaced by unspeakable joy.

The joy of His resurrection brought grace, life, and hope to us all.